On the day you were born

I tell my birth stories a lot, mostly because women are both fascinated and horrified that I had both my kids with no painkillers and not much medical intervention.  It is as if we as women have [...]

Demoted

I’ve officially been humbled as a grammar geek.  First, I spend nearly a week with the geekiest (read: coolest) group of grammar nerds I’ve ever met.  Next, my editor lays a [...]

And the word is: Married

Words are wonderful little boxes. Unwrap them and they set loose smells and memories, convictions and questions. But other times they are too small to hold the thing you want to say. So it is for [...]

It’s Cover Time!

I got a cover concept on Thursday. It’s being tweaked and should be ready to share in a few days! I also got my copyedited version, the one that will go to print. The copy editor was sweet [...]

Bad Mommy

Next week will mark the first time in my history of dog-mommy-hood that I will go away and my own mom will not be around to dog-sit.  But how hard can it be to get a dog sitter? Pretty darn hard. [...]

Perseverance

My Facebook feed is aflutter with the accomplishment of Diana Nyad, the 64-year-old woman who swam the 110 miles from Cuba to the U.S. without a shark cage. I may be a bit of a contrarian, but I [...]

The next big thing

Welcome, OneFourKidLit readers and everyone following the chain of posts from YA authors who are publishing their debut novels in 2014. My debut is The Secret Side of Empty, about life as an [...]

Blurred Lines

Robin Thicke’s Blurred Lines is an insanely catchy song that could wake me up from a coma. Blasting on my iPhone on a sunny morning in the new local park when I’m doing my 5K [...]

An NYC morning

Now that I have my new iPhone with a working camera, you’ll have to suffer through some photojournalism until I get it out of my system. I bellyache a lot about my commute but I work in a [...]

A blue streak

Somewhere along the way, I went from “too young” for things to “too old” for them.  In my twenties, I was like a colt getting my legs under me, too young and bewildered to [...]

Odds and Ends

I’m feeling too scattered to write one cohesive piece (if, in fact, we agree that my pieces are usually cohesive).  Yet I’m feeling guilty that things are so crazy busy that [...]

Rain rain go away

Rainy days make me sad, but not the way they make other people sad.  I actually love rain.  But, lately, rain makes me wistful.  It makes me mourn all the better things I could be doing instead [...]

The Crying Game

There was nothing remarkable about date # 29.  It was what happened two days after that made it notable.  The date itself was what all first dates are:  a rundown of family history, some [...]

I’m Done

I once had a writing teacher who said, “Writers don’t so much finish books as give up on them in despair.”   At the time, I so desperately wanted a book deal that I thought [...]

Social Media marches on

…And takes me with it! I set up a new Twitter account strictly for Secret Side of Empty book news.  I have not historically been the world’s best tweeter, so I’m giving it [...]